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Cbt for Social Anxiety
Social phobia is a persistent fear of doing something embarrassing or humiliating which interferes with both personal and professional lives. People with social phobia think that other people judge them negatively. This fear may reflect a sense of being inferior, different, or unacceptable, and it goes with assumptions such as thinking that "if people knew what you were really like, then they would reject you".
Symptoms are often readily visible (blushing, sweating, trembling) and may be sufficiently severe to induce panic attacks. The fear may be triggered by specific situations such as speaking or eating in public, or by contact with specific groups of people such as authority figures or sexually attractive people, or by social interactions generally. Anticipatory anxiety is common, and after an encounter social phobics tend to dwell on their supposed failings.
Equal numbers of men and women suffer from social phobia, which affects between 3 and 13% of the population. Estimates vary as people find it difficult to seek help; occasional social anxiety is normal, and many mask the problem by using alcohol or other substances.
There is no single cause, and both biological factors and experiences like being teased, bullied or criticized may contribute to its development. Social phobia often begins in adolescence, but can occur at any time. Shyness and social phobia share many characteristics, and methods of treating social phobia are also helpful for reducing shyness. It can be treated without knowing its origins.
In the short term, reactions to symptoms maintain the problem. People use 'safety behaviours', such as keeping quiet or trying not to offend anyone, to reduce the risk of the scrutiny and judgment that they fear (which is usually absent or rare). They avoid situations that they find difficult, or endure them with great distress. When interacting with others they become self-conscious, and focus on their symptoms and concerns about making the right impression. They may not notice others' reactions, or remember what has been said.
In the long term, social phobia can lead to isolation and loneliness, especially when people cannot make intimate relationships, or if they cope by confining their contacts to a few safe people. It can interfere seriously with occupational achievement. Low confidence, poor self-esteem, and periods of depression may also follow.
Cognitive-behavioural treatment has been shown to be extremely effective. This makes sense as the focus on thoughts helps people to identify the risks that they fear and to modify their thinking, and the behavioural work helps them to change the safety-seeking behaviours, avoidance and self-consciousness that otherwise maintain the problem. This form of psychotherapy also provides practical suggestions for building confidence and for working with underlying beliefs and assumptions if necessary.
Some people can alleviate the problem themselves by using books and other self-help materials. Assertiveness or yoga classes may be helpful if people can overcome their fears of joining a group, and so are non-conversational activities such as sport. Counselling may provide valued support.
Medication for anxiety can be helpful, though problems may re-emerge when it is withdrawn. Research shows that treating the social phobia for people who have become depressed often alleviates both problems. If not, anti-depressant medication may help.
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Recommended Cbt Books
Overcoming Social Anxiety
Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness is a self-help manual for this common problem, which explains why it happens and sets out practical methods of resolving it. Everyone sometimes feels foolish, embarrassed, judged or criticised, but this becomes a problem when it undermines their confidence and prevents them doing what they want to do. This easy-to-use guide, full of real-life examples, is for those who suffer from all degrees of social anxiety and shyness, for their families and friends, and for the professionals who help them: psychologists, doctors and others. Explains the many forms and causes of social anxiety. Contains a complete self-help program and work sheets. Is based on clinically proven techniques of cognitive therapy.
Overcoming Low self esteem
This is a guide which is full of real-life examples, intended for people who suffer from low self-esteeem and for those who help them: their friends, families, psychologists, counsellors and doctors. It aims to help you understand how you came to think badly of yourself and change your negative view for one that is more positive and self-accepting. It uses cognitive, behavioural therapy, a treatment of proven effectiveness, in a simple and logical programme for change.